I know that one day can be just like any other, and that it is us who attach meanings and emotions to certain days. But what the mind knows, the heart still has its own feelings about.
Today would have been my parents’ 48th wedding anniversary. It was another one of those first occasion days we had to get through. Already it’s been Jacob’s graduation and his birthday. This one was harder because it was a day honoring mom and dad. But without dad.
Mom and I went to Banff with Jenna and my niece and nephew. It was a great escape day where we were hugged by the mountains and our souls were held in love. Hard as it was, it was wonderful to see this loving group of people reach out and surround mom and walk with her (and me) through this day.
Here’s a small excerpt where she’s talking about what it means to love:
Love, is one of the forces in life that leads all of us directly into suffering, because we will ultimately lose every person and everything that we love.
After dad died, MOM is the one who taught me to be fearless enough to love anyway, without conditions, and take the great risk that loving HER, would break my heart.
I love that her mom taught her to be fearless enough to love anyway. That the great risk we take in love is knowing that you will lose everything that you love.
And yet what is the alternative? To go through life with a closed heart that never lets the love shine through. What a painful and empty existence.
It is important to remember to be fearless in love. To be brave enough to keep loving even though you know you will be hurt.
No matter what I will wake up each day and look for the things that make my soul shine. I will keep the intention to let my love shine and to be fearless enough to keep loving. That is something I learned from both my mom and dad. Love and look after your loved ones. No matter what.
Happiness moment was walking main street Banff with a group of my loved ones. Watching the love surround Mom today to hold her in a love hug. Knowing that she is still fearless enough to love anyway. We are blessed.