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Missing Martha Brown and other notes (writings by Frank Brown)

I found an old notebook of Frank Brown’s (my great grandfather) – it’s actually “The Cooper Notebook” from 1936, and like most things in my ancestry is agriculture related. This one seems to be about sheep, as the foreword in the book states:

This notebook is used and distributed in the hope that it will prove useful in everyday use, and at the same time, provide an immediate reminder of the more important aspects of sheep dipping and the uses of Cooper Products.”

I can honestly say that I, in my every day life, have managed to live a lot of years without knowing about the important aspects of sheep dipping, but I am a little bit wiser now. I’m still not sure that I will need it in my every day life, but one honestly never knows. I have learned a lot of things that at the time seemed useless, but then became essential to my well being so never say never.

The notebook is mostly full of people’s names and addresses, but there were several things Frank wrote about his late wife, or life in general. Poor Frank seemed kind of lost after the death of Martha.

My dear wife who died Sept 29, 1935

Always so thoughtful, unselfish and kind.

Few in this world are equal to find

A beautiful life suddenly come to an end

She died as she lived

Everyone’s friend

Always remembered.

And another one

My wife passed away Sept 29, 1935

Nothing can take away

The love a heart holds dear

Fond memories linger every day

Remembrance keeps her near.

Written by husband F. Brown

A few random writings:

Some noises are enormous,

Some are teeny small

Some make my ears all tingle

Some I hardly hear at all

Another one:

When things don’t go to suit you

And the whole world seems upside down

Don’t waste your time in fretting

But drive away that frown

Since life is oft perplexing

It’s much the wisest plan

To bear all trials bravely

And smile whenever you can.

Also:

A heart that never knew a Pain

Is like a Land without rain

Is like a land that never knows

A springtime flood or summer Rose

So let us thank our God for this

Our May-time, our December

The first embrace, the Parting Kiss

The things that we Remember

The day with neither rain or sun

Brought never flowers to anyone

Thank God for Joy and grief and strife

We live upon the Peaks of life.

As I’m sitting in Cold February weather and dreaming of June flowers I’m not sure I totally agree with him on this one, but I do love the clear blue skies of winter when they are here.

You suns and skies

And clouds of June

and flowers of June

Together

You cannot Rival for one

Hour this clear

December’s weather.

And:

Long delay in kindness

Takes the kindness all away.

The gracious life of love

Can’t ever lose its power.

When the great Scorer comes

To mark against your name

He writes not what

you lost or won

But how you played the game.

And a couple of warnings about dealing with people:

The honey bee has a red hot foot

The wasp has a slender tail

A bumblebee sits down quite hard

While the hornet turns you pale

The sting of the bee is hard to bear

It makes you ache and fret

but the sting that is made

By a trusted friend

Is the one you don’t forget.

Lastly this gem that was found on a lose scrap of paper, which gives an image I can’t quite get out of my head:

And when your time is over

And you’re a hopeless wreck

May you step back through your

Asshole and break your bloody neck

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