Lovely stream of thought kind of letter from Grandma. Can certainly tell that her life and responsibilities have changed somewhat as kids have grown and she’s finally become the person I knew her as – “Grandma”. I laughed so hard at her comment about her hair being ruined – her hair routine was something else and she always looked so well put together. And it seems as though we’ve entered the era where my mom met my dad.
I’m not sure if her comment about buying plant food actually belonged in the letter or if she was making a note to herself and it ended up in here. Either way – if you knew my Grandma you know she had an amazing green thumb and the African Violets bloomed frequently here in the kitchen.
RR2 Calgary, Alberta
October 9th 1965
Dear Margi:
Aren’t you lucky you can plan to annoy the thanksgiving weekend? I know you work hard and deserve it, but this business we’re in is just the limit, when can we ever plan to do anything? This past week has been perfect weather for drying the crops, then it rained all night last night and is dull today. Don got his combine out here and started to combine yesterday and Marshall went to town and rented a combine and brought it out and they both worked till long after dark but there are so many mud holes to get stuck in they just can’t work at night. We’re beginning to wonder if we will ever rescue our lovely crop. I am alone all day today, they have gone to Grand Valley to ??ruline?? The cows. Wish we could have a dinner tomorrow but if the sun shines at all they will all be working like mad so I’d better not prepare one.
I’ve just wrapped Dixie’s birthday present so that (I hope) it will get to her in time. I’m sure disappointed in the mess I made of yours. Because of the fine weather I was just horribly rushed and busy when I should heaven looking after your gift, andI’m just afraid it didn’t reach you on time. I wanted to phone you all day Wednesday, but $$$$.
Was so glad to get your letter last mail but no flowers ever arrived Marg. Hope you can get your money back and thanks ever so much for thinking of me that way. I really just feel it would just be lovely if the three of you got together and left an order in one of the florists for one bouquet from all 3 of you after this. I do appreciate flowers so much and just the symbol that you care means so much. I know that is weak of me but I can’t help it, they give me such a boost.
Aunt Ethel wants me to go cranberry picking with her tomorrow, guess I’ll go if the sun shines. Was out riding with Dad and Marsh Wednesday morning, it rained twice but the sun came out and dried me as fast as the showers came up. However, the wild winds blew my hat off and ruined my hair-do and I won’t be able to get a fresh one till Tuesday.
I think I will join the Allied Arts this year instead of taking art in Cochrane. They offer so many courses when you are a member and there are some on Tuesday afternoon from 1 to 3pm which should suit me. Also you have the chance of getting so many good concerts etc too. I’m also contemplating offering my service in volunteer work in the new Foothills Hospital it is only 15 or 20 minutes drive from here and i could help for an hour or two once a week. Dad doesn’t approve of this so much, he doesn’t realize that the work wouldn’t be hard I guess. What do you think Margi?
Fred was out for a visit the other night, he was wanting Marsh to go to Shuswap this weekend. They are having a terribly nasty hot mayoralty campaign in Calgary, and Fred is afraid PHR Morrison is going to become mayor. Do you remember him? He is quite nasty. I hope he doesn’t win because I feel a mayor should be a good-will ambassador and he is just the very opposite. Did you have a visit from good ole Aunt Flo? She phoned up wanting your address and Marsh was really in a spot. He gave it to her roughly.
Can’t you get on TV or something so we can see you? Glad to hear you got a new pink dress, pink will really suit you with that hair do. They say silver is a really fashionable colour to wear this year. I saw a girl in town last time I was in and she had false eyelashes on about 1 inch so I hope you turn those into the “Bay” in Toronto and collect your money, they assured me you could do that. It was very foolish of me to do that but I was so rushed I wasn’t thinking clearly. Say hello to Sue and Ned for me, I’d like to see Micheal. I’d like to see Lynn Burger too, she’ll be worn up before we get down if we don’t soon hurry.
I hope you have a lovely time out at Ramsay’s and I certainly hope you don’t make any more work for Mrs. Ramsay. Try hard to think of ways to help her.
I got my fur coat so that I could wear it the night we dined at the Calgary Inn. September 27th was so cold, but I didn’t get a hat like he promised me because they had such a poor selection, and were getting more in. Maybe I’ll write more before I have a chance to post, this will close for me
love Mom
Buy a tin of plant food for the violets
Monday morning:
Dad and I had a lovely day down at Sheila’s . The baby is the cutest and best baby I’ve ever seen, large blue eyes. It is nice here today but so far too wet to work. Fred and Ginger were out and took Marshall with them – fishing or something. Had a crowd for morning tea and am waiting for the men to come to dinner now. Aunt Ethel wanted me to go cranberry picking but thought I should stay home as I have to take the car in for an overhaul tomorrow all day. Hope your car is ok and that you got your snow tires for your birthday. I am going in for a general check up with Dr Morgan Friday afternoon and the dentist in the morning. Well the men are in now so I’ll have to close
Lots of Love
Mom

















